MyWorldAsIChoose2LiveIt

Why is it that when I finally get my car running, It ALWAYS breaks down soon afterwards??? That is my situation right now, fucking car wouldn't start after I arrived at my lunch destination Monday. It drove just fine all weekend and to work then at lunch, it refused to start and I was left waiting until Ben could come & get me in MATTHEWS (again) to take me home. I think Matthews has some kind of curse on me, whenever I recently get to Matthews, my car fucking breaks down. It was a hot day and I stunk some funk from waiting on Ben so there was NO way I was going back to work. I came home and relaxed, did laundry and when Ben got home we tried to figure out what was wrong with the car. Unfortunately, we had a HORRIBLE storm blow thru (dark black cloud, terrential downpour, lightening, thunder, flooding) when we got to Matthews so we didn't get very far but we do know it is the distributor we just replaced last thursday afternoon. SO as of today, I am car-less again but the part will be ready for pick up tomorrow after 12pm. So it will be fixed as long as that is the part that is only malfunctioning under my hood. Relieved it won't take a week to fix, YES...Tiffed that my car is unreliable..YES!! Time to buy a newer car..NO, not yet!

Anyways, Ben & I had a good weekend altogether. We spent most of Friday night hanging out and watching movies. Next door neighbors stopped by to hang out a little while so we had some fun. It was just a weird night with rain, thunder and lightening. Saturday, he worked and we ended up hanging with next door neighbors shooting pool/drinking & had fun. We get along so well w/ Victoria and Bill; Vicki and I played dice all night while the guys shot pool. We had fun and talked our girl talk as usual. Sucks that they will be moving this weekend and not living next door anymore...But we will extend the invite to come party and hang out anytime!!!
Sunday, Ben & I grilled out (all weekend actually) and relaxed, caught up on movies we had rented, then watched the Nextel Cup Race on DVR, just spent time talking and laughing and getting a bit "smokey "eyed too. It was a great weekend of oral and sexual gratification...we haven't lost a beat in that area. I cannot say it's the absolute BEST but we are definitely getting to that point. I never experienced orgasms as powerful until recently. I am fully in control of them and concenrtrate on the entire experience. I truly love the time we share together and hope it just keeps gettin' better and better!! He is really making an effort to make me happy and work through our problems. We talk and open up so much more, he is someone who makes me feel good and I can trust him more day by day. Tomorrow is our 1st Couples Counseling session in University. I am kinda nervous but happy too. It will be good to talk it all out with the counselor and start up on issues we need to work on and re-establish our committment to one another.

Well not that much else new on the homefront in Charlotte...will keep you all posted...back to work for me for another hour..YIPEE

FYI....June 20th (next tuesday) will be our 9 yrs of being together...I cannot believe its' been soo long since we 1st met, I remember it like it was yesterday!

posted by MyLifeAsIChoose2LiveIt @ 2:04 PM