Anyways my "picnic date" at McAlpine Park was very nice, I enjoyed it thoroughly. He planned it out to every last detail. He knew my fav flower, wine and set it up soo wonderfully. We got along great....but No spark at all. He was VERY tall and gangly looking--definetly not my physical type. I went with the idea of "only friends" and glad that was already discussed. Felt no connection on many levels at all but Oh well--cant hurt to try.
Friday went quickly in office, we left early and it was great. Scott Mc from technocom sales called me and he came over to see my place...had a couple yaegerbombs and chilled out for a while. I was waiting for this guy Adam to call me to go out but never got the call..hmmm stood up!! So I called Scott and he was heading to Stool Pigeons for drinks and eating with Mark. So he invited me to join them, I met them there and had a blast. I drank quite a few Yaeger Bombs that night!! Ended up at Rookies in Mint Hill for more beverages w/ the guys and Basketball. We drnak and laughed and had a great time. I left shortly after 10:30 and went back to Stool Pigeons for another drink while waiting to go to a party at John's.
He called about 11:30 and I headed over there soon after. I enjoyed myself, even though I didnt drink a sip while over his house. We had a good time, listened to music and chilled..had some good laughs on top of it. He invited a friend, Nicole & her gay friend Derek. We had a blast and it was a riot. I decided to leave about 2:15 am and head home, something was telling me to just be home for night. I was relieved cause when I got home, I got sick as a dog. I was very up close & personal with the porclein throne for about 5 hours til I started feeling good/normal. I slept in til 10:00 and then called Kermit. He was disappointed I was sick earlier (we had plans to meet earlier in morning) but he did come down to Charlotte from Morganton. We went to Wild WIngs for lunch, drove around Charlotte for a bit showing him around the town and chilled at Freedom Park for 2 1/2 hrs ! It was fun talking and feeling no pressure from him. I honestly don't feel a physical connection but we got along good too. He was very much a gentleman & was very happy with meeting me. So I don't think I will see much of him and see where it leads...if i dont feel "it".
Saturday night was fun, I went out with Ben to Applebees for dinner & drinks. Then proceeded to play a few games of Bowling in Matthews. It was a lot of fun and we had a blast, we did not play our best games but we had fun. I stayed over there so I could be nearby for the Cook-out Sunday at Lori & Daves. It went well and we had a good time, shot off fireworks and drank quite a bit. My allergies were really killing me Sunday, nose was running quite a bit and sniffling. Ben's mom showed up and all, barely spoke to her...but we had a good day together with everyone. I got some good meds Monday so now I am feeling AWESOME!!!
I don't know what it is really..I think I am way too picky. Is it that hard to ask for a guy to walk into my life and feel a immediate physical attraction??? I am not asking for much, just some good looking guys--no toothless wonders, not someone with minimal education, who thinks fast food is a great first date but who can live on his own and not depend on anyone. That is just the tip of iceberg for me!! I am a hard worker, love to be happy & live my life and just need the 2nd half of my life fall into place now. It is just tough meeting someone who I connect with on many levels and have that attraction to ...damn why is it sooo HARD to find a Mr. Right???!!!
Oh well life happens and I am certianly looking forward to meeting Adam from Indian Trail tonight. He called and explained his way oput of Friday night, so I am giving him another chance tonight to make it up to me. He will come over and we will hang out..he needs a friend and I am more than willing to be that with him. He will be over about 6:30 for drinks and talk..then thats it for tonight...
Will catch up w/ ya'll soon...bye bye
posted by MyLifeAsIChoose2LiveIt @ 3:51 PM
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