Friday is Here....
It is Friday & this morning did not get off to a great beginning! My car wouldnt't start (again for the umpteenth time in last yr) and is doing the same thing it did last summer, not turning over! I had to call Ben cause he is the only one who knows my car and will be able to fix it. So bottom line right now is, it is either the spark plugs & caseings for them or gas filter. It is getting to be more & more of a hassle going thru this every few months and spending more money on the damn car than I want to. If we can't fix it tonight or this weekend for Monday, the guy next door, Ron, said he can get me a great deal on a new car from the dealership he works at, for a good price and no $$$ down. That would be fabulous and I would definitely appreciate a new car to get around. Granted a car payment is not what I need right now but what can I do?? I cannot afford to keep dumping $$ in this POS car I have now, it is a '95 Corolla and it is really giving me way too many problems. I will just need to budget my expenses more and more wise w/my money so that I can swing it all every month. This is something I needed to do for awhile and now is the time I guess to venture out & get a new vehicle. He says it isn't a big deal if I have bad credit or no money to put down, I will just have to pay a little higher interest rate on loan..Such is life, right?The past week has been very good & exciting for me. First, I met Adam from the True.com and that didn't work out, though he wants to see me more and date, I am not interested! Strangely enough, I had the courage to call my neighbor, Ron, Wednesday to see if he wanted to hang out sometime, possibly that night. He was mnore than happy to hang out and definitely showed more interest than expected. So around 8pm he came over and we drank a lot Yagerbombs & Beer, on my front porch for 4 1/2 hrs talking and laughing, and had a great time! He is tall, blonde hair/light eyes, handsome, down to earth, can relate to somethings I've been thru and we really understood one another. I,for the first time, feel definite sparks with us and who knows, he maybe the man I want to be with long term. He has been very honest and straight forward on how he sees things and I feel very comfortable when we are together. His sister Victoria is my neighbor (they live together) and she thinks this is great for us to be hanging out and having fun, she is hoping for someone to make Ron happy again. When he kissed me for the first time when he left for the night, I felt tingles and it was such a good feeling.
I felt such a connection w/ him more than anyone else I have met offline thru personal ads. I have cancelled all of them effective yesterday. I am sick of the bullshit I have to go thru to meet someone who is looking for the same and is good- looking. Granted many women have different views on what is handsome but I refuse to date someone I am not attracted to physically or mentally.
So last night Ron & I got up together & drank on my front porch until his sister & b/f came home and that's when all the fun started! We did yaeger shots, I showed Victoria my sex toy inventory from Pure Romance Parties I used to do and sell for, and she offered to do my chunky highlights in exchange for sex accessories she liked for her & her boyfriend (living with her). I was cool with it and she was like a child in a candy store, very excited and picked out a bunch of things to enjoy later on. So Saturday morning I will be getting chunky blonde highlights put in and going to look FABULOUS...PLUS get more heads turning. THE MAIN ONE I WANT TO SEE TURNING IS.... RON...lol hehehehe!! He is just very easy to talk to, hang out with, party with and just have fun. We all get along soo damn good and had a blast last night. We went over their house for some 4/20 fun and I never laughed so hard as I did over there! We were laughing so hard we were falling down and giggling like school kids! Victoria & Bill are like this old married couple (though not married & he is going thru divorce), they bicker , tease, pick at and taunt each other--it was hilarious! So, if I am stuck at home all weekend, I know where to go to relax and have fun...right next door.
More about the new man in my life. Ron is 26 y/o, originally from Texas and grew up in a very diff household. He has worked in many different industries and he is now a Commercial Fleet Salesman for Ford vehicles. SPeaking wiht him and listening to things in his life, he is very mature for his age. His mom is still living in Texas and father past away last March. He is the one of two sons and 5 sisters. He sees things differently (unlike most 26 yr olds) and it is a refreshing for me to talk with him. There is no awkward silence and I can see myself spending a lot of time with him and hope for something serious to come of this. He is the first man I get nervous about seeing and love to feel his hand brush across my shoulder when he walks by...He is very sweet, romantic and just someone i can see myself being with. Tme will tell as always and I certianly don't wanna jinx it at all but things are good with us and can only get better. Ron is hoping to be able to take me out Sunday and do something fun, it will all depend on the weather. I wouldnt mind spending time with him anyways even if we have to stay in the house!!!
Well I am hoping my car can be fixed tonight so I dont have to buy a car right now and deal with car payments, I wish my car would just work and run as well as expected! I planned to have a few dates this weekend but I don't think they will happen and I honestly don't want to meet others anymore. I am really feeling like Ron & I can work into something great and I want to take the chance with him. He is worth the time I will put into seeing we are meant to be together. :0) :0)
Will catch you all up at beginning of week and let you know how things are progressing with Ron and my car.
posted by MyLifeAsIChoose2LiveIt @ 10:19 AM
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