TGIF...
Thank God it's Friday... I can NOW relax and enjoy my weekend.It has been a hell of a week and today I finally got all things squared away with my license. On my birthday (10/16), I got pulled over near my house for not making a complete stop, and in the process was told my license was suspended. Un-be-knownst to me, I was a bit shocked so over the last month I have been working to get all money & paperwork fixed to get my license back from NC DMV..bullshit!!!! It was all due to postal service not delivering my payment to SC for a ticket I got over a year ago when coming back from Myrtle Beach but I still needed to end up paying lots $ to get it back. So now I am LEGALLY able to drive in NC now..It is quite a relief to say the least.
As I have mentioned before, I had a boyfriend, Matt, who I lived with from April1st to July 30th. He posts a blogg under http://greymattersplatters.blogspot.com; he has mentioned me often until recently when he met a woman off yahoo personals, Alecia. They seem to be doing well, from what I read on the blog and I am truly happy for him. He deserves to be happy and I wish them the best. I just wonder if he has mentioned to her he is "H" sufferer. It is something he will have to live with for rest of his life and inform his future lovers about everytime. But he was upfront about it w/ me from beginning, which shows he has some integrity. Too bad we couldn't beat the odds and be together, but again he was more concerned about my new life without Ben and "contaminating" me in the process. I had a lot of life lessons he thought I needed to learn, and YES I have learned quite a bit since we broke up. But I am glad he cared for me nonetheless.
My time apart from Matt has been quite refreshing and has given me a renewed sense of who I really am. I am more confident in myself, working out and taking better care of myself now-a-days. If he could see me now...his loss, not mine. I know I will find someone true to his word and someone who I can trust and not through it up in my face later on. Yes, I admit, w/ Matt things moved very quickly, very soon and it only hurt us in the long run. I wasn't' t ready for a new man, so soon after leaving my husband, and I know that now. It just took me 7 months to realize it. But at least I can see it now.
Well my weekend is right in front of me and I am very excited about the COLD show tonight at Amos' in Southend and then head to G-town in the morning. Tonight after wor, our usual bunch of us are going to Stools' for some drinks and unwind from this week.
So this will be my last entry until Sunday night or Monday morning. We have plans to go out to uptown G-town Sat night to some nightclubs/bars and hang out...I can get my drink on and let loose a little.
Well off for the weekend in just a few minutes so I will go for now...Have a great weekend, I know I sure will..
posted by MyLifeAsIChoose2LiveIt @ 4:45 PM
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